Dating is pressure and tension. What is a date, really, but a job interview that lasts all night? ~ Jerry Seinfeld
Most foreigners get to know Indonesia by visiting Bali, but this tiny island is hardly representative of Indonesia as a whole. And if it’s Indonesian girls you are interested in, then you will have to pack your bags, bid farewell to the wonderful people and exquisite rice fields of Bali, and catch a plane to the steaming metropolis of Jakarta over 1,000 kms away.
For a time you may find the transition difficult. But do not give up easily. All will turn out well in the end!
Jakarta is not cheap and for most of us that entails getting a job. Not necessarily a bad thing but don’t take on anything too stressful else you may find yourself too drained to actively play the dating game.
Bear in mind that if you are new to Indonesia and cannot speak the language then learn it. It opens up a much wider range of opportunities. For the meantime, though, your best bet is too meet Indonesia girls who speak English. Fortunately, this is not so difficult.
Focus on QUALITY clubs and bars and expat pubs. Girly bars – mostly located on the infamous “Fellatio Street” of Blok M – offer easy pickings but are far less gratifying (although some might beg to differ).
The thorny issue of whether to frequent Jakarta’s infamous spas is a taxing one and, ultimately, only a decision that you can make yourself. Certainly the spas in Jakarta do offer scope for “greater experimentation” and increased opportunities to “find yourself” although moderation is essential to stay on a stable path. Overdo things and you may regret it.
And as for Bali? Don’t worry. You can always visit for a holiday!
Top Jakarta bars include Eastern Promise and Murphy’s (both in Kemang), Red Square, Bibliotheque, Jackrabbit, Paulaner Brauhaus, Blowfish, Planet Hollywood Restaurant & Bar, Hard Rock Café, Potato Head and Chili's Grill and Bar.
Top Jakarta spas include Alexis, Oasis Spa, Emporium Spa, Malioboro Spa, Atlantis Spa, Comfort Spa, Illigals Spa and Club 36.
Indonesian girls are very beautiful…
Have great figures…
But be careful…
… because they can also pack a punch!!! Hahaha!!!!